When approaching this highly companionable book, Forget Me Not by Torri L. Fisher, one should focus on the sub-title’s first half (A Caregiver’s Guide) and not be swayed by the specificity of the second (Early-Onset Alzheimer’s Disease). The author makes this clear early on, but it should be emphasized: This book is intended to make any caregiver’s life easier, more manageable, and better navigated. Doing so is not dependent on the patient’s diagnosis. As Ms. Fisher also makes clear early on, it’s not easy to distinguish between the natural effects of aging, dementia, Alzheimer’s, or (as in my situation) a disabling stroke. In all cases, the caregiver (presumed reader) is dealing with varying degrees of mental diminishment in their loved one.
I described this book as “companionable” for a reason. While the author provides an introductory section describing clinical aspects of the various disabilities potentially involved, she doesn’t ask you to make the diagnosis. She presumes that is only a corollary aspect of the love and care you seek to provide to another. Indeed, she is not focused on your patient - she is concerned with your well-being. Her desire to provide you with aid, comfort, and encouragement is every bit as strong as your desire to give these gifts to your loved one. Therein lies the great strength of this comprehensive book, which is an informative and compassionate companion on an unfamiliar path. It’s almost as if you told Ms. Fisher, “Forget me not.”
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